Advice; How To Leave Home To Start Life When Your Parents Stop You.

Welcome my dear friend to this advisory article on the various challenges that prevent us from reaching great success.

In this article we are going to get advice on how to leave home and start your life where your parents reject you.

Our fellow readers who wrote to ask for advice on this were ashamed to say;

"I live in a village and I live with their parents who are pastoralists. Now they are preventing me from going out in search of a livelihood. - Dwacy M. M.

“I am threatened with being cursed by my parents when I tell them about leaving

at home to find my life what should I do? "-White K. K

Even if we look at history and various cultures, there is an age when you have to move from where you are used to, to a place that is unknown so that you can make real life struggles unhindered.

It's not that you can't succeed at home, you can, but for many it becomes a major obstacle for a variety of reasons.

Great if it is the practice and certainty of life even if one fails. Since you know you are at home, you are not too afraid to fail.

But when you are away from home, you know there is no place to hold on, it is a struggle to succeed or fail while you have nowhere to hold on.

The biggest challenge of leaving home is parents and close people will not agree with you.

They will prevent you from leaving home for two main reasons.

One will see that you are going to suffer especially when you are away from them something they will not be able to help you and so they will want you to stay there.

Two of them will see you lose your support to them especially when they are relying on you in various ways.

Your parents and loved ones will prevent you from leaving home with the best of intentions, but it will not help you at all.

It will prevent you from realizing yourself and growing beyond where you are.

So if your soul pushes you to leave home, you should do so.

There are two main ways to get out of the house when your parents or close friends stop you.

The first way is to ASK PERMISSION.

Here you are asking them to let you go and look for a life outside the home.

For this request to be effective, you must have a clear plan of where you are going and what you are planning to do.

When you say you want to leave home without a clear plan, you will appear to be unprepared and no one will be willing to let you go.

In requesting permission they also remove the major concerns they have about your departure.

If they fear you are going to fail and suffer, give them your plan of what you will do if you fail.

If they need someone to help you when you leave, have a plan for that at all, if you will find someone to help them when you are not with them to pay for that person.

By knowing what makes people close to you reluctant to leave your home and you have prepared a good plan and told them, they will be persuaded to let you.

But despite giving them your best plan you can still be misunderstood, the answer remains no, don’t leave.

That's when you need to use the second method.

The second way to leave home when your parents or loved ones prevent you from doing so is to APOLOGIZE.

By asking for permission and being denied, with in you a strong impulse to leave and go start your life probably, you have no choice but to leave without permission.

Here you leave without permission with the intention of going to fight to fulfill your dream and later come back to apologize for what you did.

People may deny you permission, but no one can deny you forgiveness, especially when you have been successful in what you did.

When you choose to use this second method, you must be truly committed to fighting until you succeed without looking back. For in this way you will get a lot of blame, but it will all be forgotten if you succeed.

If you succeed you will not even need to apologize, those who rejected you will forgive themselves.

So if you want to leave home but your parents or close people are blocking you, you have two options, to ask permission or to apologize. Start with permission, failing which you will come to apologize.

Important things to consider when using the forgiveness method.

The way to forgiveness is a difficult, but powerful, way to be able to use it well.

The following are some important factors to consider when choosing this method;

1. You must know exactly what you want to do or achieve and you are so motivated in you that you do not even get sleep.

Without much enthusiasm and motivation, that approach will be difficult for you.

And if you do not know what you want, if you are the first one to ask what to do then the sun is not ready and those who are blocking you are right.

If you know exactly what you want and are eager to get it, you don't even need to ask for advice, you don't even need to ask permission, people will let you in on themselves because they see the great power within you.

2. Things will not be easy. Despite having a good plan going to work, things will still not go as planned.

You will put in a lot of effort but the results will be completely different from expectations.

You will meet the challenges and restrictions of each type. You will fail and fall, but you should not let anything stop you from getting what you want.

Prepare to fight exactly, knowing that trip is not easy. There are times when you desire to return home from difficulty you will go through, but do not accept the failure of any way.

Continue with the struggle until you get what you want.

3. You must be ready to blame, be cut, rejected and disappointed. Welcome people will use all kinds of threats to you when you choose this way. They will tell you all kinds of words just to abandon your plan.

If you are not with hard skin, you will not tolerate it and you will abandon your plan.

You need a really hard skin, you can hear all that and yasukutetezeshe. Parents tell you they will leave the curse but that does not go up, because you know the great curse and will afflict you in your life is not living your dreams. When you have great success, while you live the purpose of your life and fulfill your dreams, no curse that can bother you.

The necessary resources you have to adhere to.

When choosing a way of forgiveness, you must have the proper preparation and the most part is to break the faith and attitudes of the past and rebuild.