The fact that you have made a mistake in front of people is something that threatens a person's identity, which is why many people consider making a mistake as a step backwards. The view of most people is that going forward is only when your peers see you as right in their personal perspective. Wanting to look good in the eyes of your peers is what causes you to always be defensive, self-defensive, blaming other people or slandering something else, especially when things have gone wrong.
People who are passionate about looking right, often struggle to do those tasks or activities that prove to other people that they are capable. If you have a passion for looking good all the time, you will often prefer to do your job by following other people's opinions.
As a result and unknowingly you find yourself becoming a slave to other people they turn into your bosses. This is due to the fact that everything you have to listen to what they say you get permission from them.
If you do something that is good for you and for other people but your loved ones say it is wrong, then you will stop "just because people say it's not good".
When you become a person guided by the opinions of other people, know that soon you will begin to lose your creativity. Because, you always do your job very carefully, focusing on not looking bad. The fear of working out for fear of looking worse, the next step is to plug the creative canal out of your mind.
Closing the canal means that your efforts and minds are no longer focused on finding solutions to existing challenges and problems, but to a large extent you will use a lot of intelligence in doing things that you think your loved ones will praise or praise you for.
A person who likes to look right is also an unbeliever if there is someone else who can do better than him. This is a person who does not believe in other people's talents. He always believes that if he does not do it, there will be no good results. He is always a spiritual person who says to himself that "without me things can not go".
The truth is that any product or service we see on the market can never be delivered by one person, because no human being can have all the talents.
The habit of wanting to look right to people, in business and investment is not appropriate. This is because, in business and investment we strongly believe in connecting the talents of different people (teams) with the aim of generating solutions to the challenges and problems that exist in society. We do this because, the products and services you use today, are the result of a variety of talents linked together with a trader or investor.
In other areas of life, the increase in people who compliment and praise you does not bring direct benefits to you, if any. And often when you succeed in making a profit, it becomes less permanent. At the same time, the state of business and investment life is a little different and you are elsewhere. In business, the whole plan is to focus on effort and intelligence in producing, adding, and giving great value to other people.
In a particularly large business, customers are our closest friends and are the measure of the accuracy of what we do. The main responsibility includes maintaining dedication and working diligently and with knowledge until the customers are satisfied. The advantage of working with the goal of satisfying your customers is that the more customers you are satisfied with the work you do, the more your income will increase.
If you want to be a great businessman and entrepreneur, start today by setting yourself the environment to eradicate this habit of always loving people. Never want to be right for other people, but to be right for yourself, also to do what you are supposed to do. If you don't stop this habit of always wanting to do things that prove to them that you have great potential, I assure you that it will not happen until one day you succeed in business.
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