Infidelity in couples is such a widespread situation throughout the world that it tends to become ordinary. Since adultery is considered in a relationship to be the most important form of betrayal, it is not easy for a couple to recover from it. But when the lover is also your friend, the betrayal is twofold.
A question comes up regularly in several online forums. If the reasons, may be different from one couple to another, always and that the consequence remains unchanged, the feeling of betrayal. In fact, AfrikMag in this article helps you, supported by advice from marital experts, to deal with these cases of infidelity.
Signs that do not deceive
If your wife cheats on you, you will undoubtedly notice changes in her daily behavior. She will communicate less and less with you, avoiding long conversations and sometimes even spending time with you. It is also possible that she no longer tells you "I love you" on a daily basis if she used to do so before. You still have some gestures of affection but not as much as before. In the same way, she can spend more time in the office, with her friends or start an activity that takes her several hours a week. You feel that she has an increasingly negative attitude on a daily basis, even you have the impression that she is on the defensive and she now makes a critical judgment on you for things she did not even notice before. Suddenly, she asks for things she had never asked you before, unusual or even dangerous activities, she wants something new, to get out of the routine.
You sometimes feel indifference in her: the little teasing that once made her jealous no longer has an effect on her. She seems to miss the house, you, everything and you don't understand what has changed. In addition to avoiding you at home, she seems to have secrets, hide things or sometimes lack coherence in her words.
Last but not least, you have almost no intimacy and you feel that the emotional connection with your partner has broken. The addition of all these elements or a large number is a sign that you need to have a conversation with your partner.
And then, one last element, think about the future of your marriage. Ask yourself if infidelity should automatically end your relationship? However, it depends mainly on you, if your wife wants to fix the situation. This can be a fresh start for your couple where you learn from your mistakes and build a relationship on solid foundations. It is still an important process that will take time, patience and a lot of commitment.
What to do?
According to the marriage coaching site "Atout Couple" a cuckolded spouse should above all question the reasons for the infidelity of his fiancée, or wife. This set of questions will help you a priori to define the attitude to which you want to bow after discovering the infidelity of your wife.
Then communicate as much as possible to try to know the needs that your spouse might have missed.
Key issues
Confront it and understand why it deceived you? In these two cases, a discussion is necessary, but not before thinking about the situation as a whole. Indeed, the first questions you need to ask yourself are: why is my wife unfaithful? What was the trigger for her? These questions will not only help you understand what was wrong but above all not to repeat the same mistakes and/or patterns in the future. The goal for you, and the best bulwark against infidelity is to be yourself an irreproachable companion and especially present on a daily basis in the relationship.
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